An app for iPhone and iPad
A deck of 2,200 questions for reflecting on your own and for talking with people close to you. In Solo you write answers in your Journal; in Together you answer out loud.
Coming to the App Store soon. Free to start.
Who lets me be most fully myself?
Solo
What would my future self thank me for doing today?
Solo
Which small decision, long ago, changed everything for you?
Together
What in me deserves pride, even though nobody knows about it?
SoloFive real questions from Solo and five from Together. Nothing here is saved.
Who believed in me before I did, and what did they see?
Solo deckTap the card to turn it. Swipe or use the arrow keys to move through the deck.
questions, from light ones to the kind you think about for a week
languages, from English to Japanese
The first 60 cards are free. One purchase unlocks the rest, with no subscription.
No account, no ads, no analytics.
You can use both, depending on the day.
Turn the card over when you're ready. On the back you rate the question from 1 to 5 and write a note, from one sentence to a whole page. Notes go to your Journal.
Create a profile for a pair or a group. The person holding the phone reveals the question and reads it aloud, and the other person answers. Then the phone moves on. Answers are spoken and never saved.
Every Solo note goes to the Journal with its question and the date. The Journal opens with Face ID, Touch ID or your passcode, every time. On iPad, the list and the chosen note sit side by side.
Sample entry, made up · Tom
Sunday, 7 June
My grandmother, I think. When I was eleven I spent a whole summer drawing the view from her kitchen window, the same pear tree over and over, and she pinned every single drawing to the fridge. Even the bad ones. Especially the bad ones.
I used to think she was just being kind. Writing this, I'm not so sure. I think she saw that I could sit with one thing for a long time without getting bored, and that it mattered to me to get it right. I still do that, at work, with people. I just never connected it to her until now.
I should tell my sister about this. She remembers the fridge.
Sample entry, made up · Marta
Wednesday, 17 June, late
Asking. I've actually forgotten how to do it. Last week at the shop I couldn't reach the top shelf and I stood there for about a minute rather than ask the man next to me.
When Mum got ill I was fourteen, and after that everything was on me. I was proud of that. I still am, a bit.
But something else went too. The girl who could just cry and someone would come and hold her. I don't know if you can get her back. Maybe I'll start with the top shelf.
Some evenings it's one line. Some evenings it's this.
Depth. From light questions to very personal ones. You set the range in Settings.
Skipping. Not now always works, with no limit.
No points or levels. The Home screen only shows simple numbers, like how many cards you turned this month.
Today's card. Plus a widget and a reminder. Both are optional, and the reminder is off by default.
No sign-in and no profile on our side.
The app doesn't tell us which questions you pick or what you write. The numbers on the Home screen are counted on your device, just for you.
You answer out loud. The app doesn't record or save it. It only keeps the profiles and the card count.
Face ID, Touch ID or your passcode, every time. It's an access lock, not separate encryption of each note.
Sync is on by default. Your notes then also go to your private iCloud, which we can't see. You can turn it off in Settings.
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Home with today's card.
A Solo card.
The back of a card, with a note.
The Journal.
Together, before the question is revealed.
Choosing topics to leave out.
The whole app speaks your language: every question, every button and every reminder. Pick one to read today's card in it.
What would my future self thank me for doing today?
You start with 60 free cards, the Journal and note export. The App Store will show the one-time price in your currency.
There is no waiting list or newsletter.
No. It's a deck of questions for reflection and conversation. It doesn't diagnose anything and it doesn't replace a therapist, a doctor or anyone you'd go to for help.
No. There's nothing to sign up for. You open the app and draw a card.
60 cards are free: 30 for Solo and 30 for Together. The Journal, notes, export, profiles and settings are free too. A single purchase unlocks the full library of 2,200 questions. There is no subscription.
On your iPhone or iPad, and in your own private iCloud if sync is on (it is by default). We never receive them. Together answers are not saved at all.
Yes, as long as iCloud sync is on and both devices use the same Apple ID. Notes are then merged between iPhone and iPad. If you turned sync off, your notes stay only on the old phone, so export them first.
Use Restore purchases in the app. It uses your Apple ID, so there's nothing to remember on our side.
What you did, what you expected, and the app version, which you'll find at the bottom of Settings. Please don't paste your notes. We don't need them to fix anything.
Questions, bugs, or a card that didn't sit right with you. Write to us.